How To Break Down What Happens And Get Your Timing Right

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Thursday, 6.47pm

Sheffield, U.K.

All things entail rising and falling timing. You must be able to discern this. – Miyamoto Musashi

In a police investigation, I understand, the most important thing is the timeline of events.

What happened first? What happened next? And so on.

It’s useful to keep this in mind because, although we sort of know time happens in this sequential kind of way we sometimes forget.

Actually, it’s probably fair to say we often forget.

And that probably has something to do with how our brains work.

For example, I read something on social media today that has a line that looked like “Why is no one talking about … thing?”

And someone responded, agreeing that no one was talking about it, and pointing to a report on the issue.

So, someone is talking about it – just because it’s news to you doesn’t mean that somewhere else there’s an army of people working on the subject.

When we first become aware of something our brain adjusts its filter, now showing you everything that’s similar – the so called reticular activating system.

It’s when you decide you want a new car you see models of the ones you’re considering everywhere you look.

Now, let’s turn this the other way around – what if you have a message you want to get out there.

Is the right time to send out that message when you’ve written it?

That’s what many of us do – we do stuff and send it out.

This post, for example, will come to your inbox in a short while when I press the right button.

And that’s fine if your focus is on creating material – that’s what I’m trying to do.

But you need to think differently when you want someone to react to your stuff – to respond to what you do.

If you want that to happen you first need to work out what their timeline looks like.

Let’s say you sell a cost reduction service.

When is the best time to get in touch with a person at a prospect organisation?

First, obviously, you need to figure out who the best person is to get in touch with – is it the Managing Director, a plant operator?

Who is the person or group of people with the responsibility and the power to commission your services?

If it’s the MD, do you work down a list of companies from A-Z, highest to lowest turnover?

Bash the phones or send spam email and hope you get through?

Or can you be more strategic about it all?

What if you look at companies and see how their results look year on year – which ones are under pressure to do something?

What if you look at companies where a new MD has taken over – someone who wants to make their mark quickly?

What about companies that have negative reviews and are struggling to manage the impact on their reputation?

All these organisations may be willing to listen to your message about how you can take out costs because of what you know.

There are many reasons why you might be rejected by someone – and it often has to do with when you’ve approached them.

If you adopt a random approach then you will have a certain success rate – because for a proportion of the people you talk to you’ll get the timing right.

The question for you is whether by looking more closely at the timeline of events you can figure out which entry point will increase your chances of success.

But that information isn’t just out there – it’s not easy to find.

It takes some detective work.

You have to get into the minds of your prospects – the way they act and think.

Maybe you interview them, maybe you gather research, maybe you set up google alerts for significant events.

You create a research division – even if it’s just you – your own private investigative office to support your marketing efforts.

You know how in stories the detective gets the bad guys by piecing together bits of evidence that are there for everyone to see – but only the detective put together.

That’s the skill we need to develop as marketers.

Because you can get your timing right by accident.

But if you understand the way the timeline works, you can get it right on purpose.

Cheers,

Karthik Suresh

What Kind Of Work Should You Focus On Creating?

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Wednesday, 9.39pm

Sheffield, U.K.

The world always seems brighter when you’ve just made something that wasn’t there before. – Neil Gaiman

I rarely have a plan when I begin the process of writing one of these posts.

I do have a ritual, however, a ritual that means I never have to start with a blank page – a ritual that makes it possible to eventually post something in an hour or so.

A blank page can be a forbidding, fear inducing thing.

Those first words, that first scrawl – it doesn’t look like anything and it probably won’t be anything and you’re best off just throwing it in the bin now.

You see this happening early on in life – first your children scribble and draw without fear.

And then they start school and learn that things are good or bad, perfect or imperfect, and they worry about getting the spelling right, or the spacing right, or the pronunciation right.

And in trying to get things right we slow down, we spend less time practising and more time correcting – and eventually controlling.

And eventually correction and control kills the thing you started doing because you liked doing it.

How many children continue to draw into adulthood?

At around six, seven, eight, nine, ten – they start to leave behind childish things and childish scrawls – they grow up.

An organisation is similar to a child in that respect.

When you’re running a startup what you’re focused on is creating something – something that you believe should exist or something that a customer needs you to create.

That’s exciting work, creative work – and you’ll get on and do it.

And then your startup grows, you add people – and calls start for training, and quality and management.

You start creating processes – which go out of date almost instantly if you do any kind of innovation at all – so in order to keep the process moving you stop innovating.

Richard Feynman had this story about the space programme where mechanics had to count a number of holes across a rocket body to work out where the fasteners should go.

Feynman suggested that they paint four marks on the quadrants, because that way you would only need to count a quarter of the holes.

“Too expensive,” he was told.

Too expensive to paint four little marks?

No – too expensive to revise and reprint all the manuals.

And so children stop drawing, companies stop innovating and everyone gets old and miserable.

But it doesn’t have to be that way – if you keep a few pointers in mind.

These particular ones come from the mind of Neil Gaiman and his famous keynote address at the Philadelphia’s University of the Arts.

What you should do, Gaiman says, is make good art.

Art, I think, is anything you do – and it includes writing, programming, sculpting, steel-making.

Because there is an art to doing almost everything.

Everything that adds value, that is.

This is where we should keep in mind that there are things we do that add value – things that customers need.

Then there are things we do that are as a consequence of failures in a system somewhere – things that have gone wrong.

It’s easy to see why working on the first type of demand on our time – value demand – is worth doing.

The second kind of demand – failure demand – is easy to get wrong.

Failure demand is the time you spend dealing with the consequences of a problem rather than fixing the system so the problem stops happening.

Fixing things is also an art – as Pirsig pointed out in Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance.

So, the first thing to remember is to make art – and make good art.

The second thing, Gaiman says, is to make your art.

Make the stuff only you can do, the stuff that excites you, the stuff that emerges as you lean make art – first copying, then adapting and then innovating – all the while creating.

But, the will to make good art or your art is not enough.

I suspect even trying to do it will actually throw you off.

What you need instead is a ritual – starting work on your art at around the same time, using the same approach, and getting on with it.

On some days your work will be rubbish.

On other days it will be good.

But at the end of a year at least you’ll have a body of work.

And you’ll know yourself better.

Cheers,

Karthik Suresh

Why We Should Take Few Things As Finished Or Perfect

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Tuesday, 8.24pm

Sheffield, U.K.

Looking not to any one time, but to all time, if my theory be true, numberless intermediate varieties, linking most closely all the species of the same group together, must assuredly have existed; but the very process of natural selection constantly tends, as has been so often remarked, to exterminate the parent forms and the intermediate links. Consequently evidence of their former existence could be found only amongst fossil remains. – Charles Darwin

In one of David Attenborough’s programmes there is an arresting scene of two bulls, a challenger and an old veteran, going head to head.

Weighing over half a ton each, their foreheads crash together, again and again.

The challenger seems to be winning until the veteran gets broadside and drives him away.

It’s the kind of clash you remember, that sticks in your mind – because of the beauty and majesty of these animals and the seeming pointlessness of their way of setting a dispute.

But then you have to ask yourself, what alternatives do you have?

In a post on Ben Orlin’s very funny Math With Bad Drawings blog he explains the Intermediate Value Theorem as effectively saying that if at one time you were three feet tall and then at a later time you were five, then at some time in between you must have been four feet tall.

Now, what this means for you and me is that evolution and maths are telling us that what we see is not all there is.

Let me explain.

If you have a job right now, in order to start that job you signed a contract.

A contract that sets out the rights and obligations between you and your employer.

Maybe it’s a very restrictive one, where they own everything you make, even what you come up with while you’re dreaming.

Maybe it’s one where they can fire you at any time.

Or maybe there isn’t one at all – it’s cash in hand, or sometimes it’s not.

Or it’s a loose contract setting out what you will do for this employer but leaving room for you to work for other as well.

Those of us that aren’t lawyers tend to look at contracts as perfect documents, set in stone – while to lawyers they might simply be a set of statements, often imperfect, and something to argue over and settle after they’ve been paid.

An approach to management might have evolved along similar lines, from forced labour to a postmodern network of capabilities – each approach fitting into a particular niche, surviving, evolving, dying.

What’s obvious is what is in front of you – the end products of all those small changes, those intermediate states.

We see them as they are now – bulls, markets, societies, economies, theories – and wonder how they ever got so big and complex – surely it cannot have been by chance?

There must have been a guiding hand, a creator, someone omnipotent?

But somehow, the more plausible explanation is that these things just happened over time.

And they took time.

Which human beings don’t like – I saw a post where Paul Graham quoted some as always asking if you think something will take ten years ask yourself how you will do it in six months.

Maybe some things can be addressed that way.

Others can’t.

You can’t make a baby in one month by getting nine women pregnant, for example.

If you want to become good at something – playing music, writing, programming, managing, science, learning a language, assimilating into a society – it’s hard to shortcut those 10,000 hours or 10 years that you usually need.

But most of that applies to things that you want to do – like those bulls who want to protect their territory – or take over another one’s patch.

For human beings we have the advantage of being able to consider what to do.

We can see how those bulls resolve their differences and understand that it involves pain and a lingering headache.

And we can choose to do things differently – change the things we don’t like.

As long as we don’t get fooled into thinking that change is not possible – that the way things are is the way they have to be.

Because you can make a difference.

Cheers,

Karthik Suresh

What’s The Right Kind Of Risk To Take?

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Monday, 8.47pm

Sheffield, U.K.

Risk comes from not knowing what you’re doing. – Warren Buffett

I had a look again at David J. Schwartz’s The magic of thinking big yesterday – and was struck by a section on why some very clever people don’t achieve as much as you think they should.

As Robert Kiyosaki put it, A students end up working for C students, and B students end up working for the government.

Why is that?

One thing, Schwartz writes, has to do with attitude, the kind of person you are.

Early in your career people will pick you and promote you more on the basis of how you approach tasks and whether you get things done than how smart you are.

Being smart helps.

Knowing things is good.

But being useful is important.

If your managers find that you are useful you get more responsibility and are exposed to more opportunities than someone who is not.

But what is it about attitude that makes the difference – and how do you decide what kind of attitude is best?

Let’s take an extreme of the positive approach – the kind of person who always promises to deliver and is certain they can get things done, no matter the obstacle.

You find such people in many places, bull headed people who believe in themselves and are ready to push themselves to the limit.

You might think of such people as risk takers, the kind of person that would take a running jump across a canyon, the kind of person who will shoot for the stars.

Some of them make it.

Some of them don’t.

Those that make the leap might then tell you all about how you need to leap and then the net will appear, when one door closes another will open.

But while you listen to them you must keep in mind survivor bias – you’re only getting the message from those that got across.

You don’t hear from the ones who took the jump and for whom the net failed to appear, or the ones for whom the door turned out to be a window.

The other kind of person is the one who knows what can go wrong with anything and everything.

These people stand on the sidelines, watching the jumpers – knowing why they will fail – and why they would never themselves take the leap.

It’s a form of negative thinking, if you want to demean it, and a form of realism, if you want to accept it.

Either way such people choose to be safe – to do what should be done.

They live their lives but because they take no risk at all they perhaps don’t achieve what they could have done.

They’ll never know.

And then there is the image of the tightrope walker – a person who takes a calculated risk.

Someone who steps out into the void – but a step at a time feeling for safety.

Someone who trains and practises and has the skills needed to balance and maintain a precarious footing.

Someone who knows what can go wrong and takes the trouble to learn how to do things and get the right tools to help along the way.

Perhaps the way to think about this is as follows.

Some people take a leap and some of them succeed.

Some people search for reasons why doing something will fail – and so rarely achieve anything.

And some people try and work out how to make something succeed – and improve their chances of doing so as a result.

I’d put the three in a particular order – using a red, amber, green approach.

The wild leap, for me is the riskiest approach – and gets a red.

Staying put is better than jumping – and gets an amber.

Knowing what you’re doing gets a green.

Cheers,

Karthik Suresh

Why Looking At What You Do Tells You Who You Are

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Sunday, 9.13pm

Sheffield, U.K

And Pharoah said, ‘You are lazy! You will be given no straw, but you must produce the same tally of bricks each day.’ – Exodus 5

Do you know how to find out what people will do in a given situation?

For example, if you’re marketing a new brand of healthy cereal, what questions would you ask to find out whether people will buy it?

Many people will assume the right thing to do is ask people what they will do.

“Would buy this type of cereal?”, might be one.

A simple direct question – would you do this.

Many people, when asked such a question, will probably say that they would buy that type of healthy cereal.

Should you now go and build your factories – start producing tons of the stuff?

Before you do that the question you should ask is “What types of cereal do you buy now?”

The point is that studying the past will tell often you more about what will happen in the future than any amount of prediction or forecasting.

Why is that?

Well, the future has an infinite set of alternatives – every possible thing that could happen from the next instant.

The past is defined – a single timeline of things that have happened.

The past is certain and the future uncertain.

But what is likely is that things that have happened in the past will happen again in the future.

If your preference has been for chocolate ice cream for most of your adult life you are unlikely to change to a pomegranate fusion.

This is the time of year for resolutions – for ideas and plans for how you will do things differently.

Imagine you were to tell a friend about how you have spent the last few days, the last few weeks, the last few months, the last year – what would you say?

If you could talk through what’s taken your time, what you’ve enjoyed doing, how things have gone – then you will have an insight into what you’ve done.

And in what you’ve done lies the information you need to understand what you’re going to do.

Let’s take writing as an example – something like keeping a blog like this one you’re reading.

If I look back at what I’ve done, the one constant that’s always been there is writing.

I have sheets of yellow paper with pencilled writing from 1998 in a file, letters, diary entries – not everything but enough to know that writing has been something I’ve done for a few decades.

I use writing as a way to examine what I think, as a way to understand other people’s ideas, as a way to work through unsettling situations.

In the first decade of this century I held a view that if something wasn’t in writing it practically didn’t exist.

In the second decade I revised that view to if something isn’t on the Internet it doesn’t exist.

Now, if someone starts a website or a blog or whatever else because they think it would be a useful thing to do – something utilitarian – perhaps something as part of a content marketing strategy – the test of whether they will keep at it is whether they have written much in the past.

Because if they haven’t this task will wear them down, doing something they don’t really like doing day after day.

And you can’t outsource it easily – because that person writing has the same problem.

Do they do it because they have to – in which case that angst will show – or do they do it because they like writing?

The thing you have to look for when trying to see whether something that you want to change is likely to do so is the voice of the process.

If you want to increase the number of customers you have, how much time did you spend last year having conversations with prospects, partners and introducers?

If you want to lose weight how many days a week did you exercise last year?

If you want to spend less how much time did you spend last year filling in your cashbook and updating your budget?

The fact is that we are all anchored in the past, rooted there – just like a giant tree.

If we want to change ourselves or our situation in a way that is very different from where we are now we need to pull up that anchor, uproot that tree – and that’s very hard work.

Not impossible – but very hard.

You should have started taking baby steps to change ten years ago.

But if you haven’t – today is good too.

Cheers,

Karthik Suresh

What Do You Do When You Feel Less Good Than Everyone Else?

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Saturday, 9.30pm

Sheffield, U.K.

What fascinated me most was Churchill as a young child. He had a kind of Dickensian childhood. The neglect. And he was a terrible student. His whole life is a study in trying to overcome your feelings of inadequacy. – John Lithgow

I said I probably wouldn’t write about the fourth chapter of Alain de Botton’s book The consolations of philosophy but I’ve changed my mind.

The reason I thought I’d skip it is because it covers areas that are not nice to read about as part of an essay on inadequacy.

The problem is one of how people in history have treated other people because they were different – lesser than them.

And it’s happened all over the world, all across time – from South America to Africa to Europe and Asia and Australasia.

The scars of these histories are still visible today – just pick a country – it seems unfair to single out one and there will be something in their history people now wish was simply forgotten.

The good thing is that it now is unlikely that such things will be forgotten – the Internet has a long memory and gives people a voice when they did not have one.

Some of those stories are ones you may not wish to hear.

Right now, for example, with young children and knowing what we now know- I am unable to pick up a book in the library that has letters that Jewish children living in ghettos wrote during the war.

I know it’s there, and must be read – but later.

But my reason for writing about this chapter is that it introduces a French philosopher, Montaigne, who wrote about how important it was that we understand one another.

It is easy to see anything different as worse – and that is how people have seen things for most of history.

In some ways that is a natural, instinctive way to look at the world.

It’s natural and instinctive to see your country being filled up with foreigners and feeling like you’re being pushed out.

And that’s why it’s wrong.

If you want to be a “good” person they you have to fight against what is your natural and instinctive reaction to things – a reaction based on what you think is normal and abnormal based on what you have learned and been exposed to.

And Montaigne pointed out that they only way you can do that is by learning more about other people, other cultures and other ways of doing things.

In any situation you will have some people that are in charge, in control, this is their space.

And you will have others that try to fit in – but feel small, marginalised, without a voice, facing a glass ceiling or outright antagonism and violence.

Who feel inadequate.

And this happens to individuals as well – the inadequacy that affects us when we see people living perfect lives on social media – when we see others that seem to be doing much better than we are.

Montaigne points out that respect or value seems to come from people who are furthest away from you.

To your family you are an eccentric – while to someone on the other side of the world your words might be life changing.

Now one solution to the inequity in life and society is for the majority, the winners to make place for the minority, the marginalised.

Some places do this – and some places fight it and depending on where you live – you take the opportunity or you live with the injustice.

But if you are lucky you have something now that almost no one had in the past.

You have the ability to get a voice – a global one.

And one can hope that when we hear these voices we will be more open to change.

Let’s be real about this – you will have some people build walls and ignore the evidence – fight against any suggestion that they or their ancestors did anything wrong.

And you will have others that accept what happened and try to make a difference.

For example, this article analyses Japan’s history and suggests that what is needed in such situations is a permanent way of memorialising and apologising for national crimes – in law, in education, and in culture.

But while you’re waiting being able to tell your story is one way of dealing with what has happened.

What we should be doing is teaching people the right way to treat others.

You’ve all heard of the golden rule, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”

What’s actually needed, but less well known, is the platinum rule.

“Do unto others as they would have you do unto them.”

Cheers,

Karthik Suresh

How Do You React When Things Don’t Go The Way You Want?

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Friday, 9.23pm

Sheffield, U.K.

It took 10 months for me to learn to tie a lace; I must have howled with rage and frustration. But one day I could tie my laces. That no one can take from you. I profoundly distrust the pedagogy of ease. – George Steiner

I’m on the third chapter of Alain de Botton’s The consolations of philosophy and this is about frustration.

The basic problem with life is that every once a while what we wish for is blocked by reality.

You really wanted that promotion, but someone else got it.

Or you wanted to get those tickets but they were sold out.

When this kind of stuff happens some people get angry.

It’s a natural response to being frustrated, they argue. If you don’t respond like that then you’re emotionally shut down – not in touch with your feelings – a robot.

de Botton draws on the Roman philosopher Seneca whose advice pretty much comes down to shit happens – so expect it to happen and then you won’t be surprised when it does happen.

Bad things can happen – in fact every bad thing that could happen to you could happen pretty much in the next minute.

So, prepare yourself and be ready for whatever might happen.

And then you won’t feel so bad?

Hmmm. Not sure about that last bit.

Seneca went through his share of troubles – he was exiled, brought back and finally ordered to kill himself by his former student, the Emperor Nero – and he did so – without falling apart.

The thing is, when you look at Seneca’s approach to dealing with frustration it really only applies to things that frustrate you – things that affect only you.

If you’re passed over, if you’re swindled out of a commission, if people use you and then discard you – then yes you can choose to be stoic and calm about it all.

But then there are times when you can be calm and very angry at the same time.

And those times are when, I suppose, you are in a situation where other people have absolute power over you and your family and your people.

The next chapter of de Botton’s book, which I think I will skip writing about, talks about what happened to the Native American population in the 1500s.

They were seen as non-human by the invading Spanish – and butchered and treated worse than animals – 70 million died out of a population of 80 million.

This might seem like a long time ago – but you have to then remember the history of slavery a few hundred years later.

And the guillotine and the inquisition were still there in the East in the last century.

Should the Indians and the slaves have just taken this stoically – accepted that bad things happen to them and their families and got on with living – or more often, dying?

How would you react?

But then, coming back to something approaching normality – you have frustrations that can be overcome – like building a bridge or inventing new things.

Being too stoic and accepting of everything might also mean that you never grow or learn or push yourself.

So, perhaps here’s a conclusion from the essay.

Most things are small things – don’t sweat the small stuff.

Many things can be overcome – don’t give up too soon.

But what’s not in the essay is when frustration should be absorbed and used and redirected.

Sometimes you should work to make change happen – and anger can drive you to do that – especially when things are unfair.

And sometimes you should go with the flow – accept reality and live the best you can.

As always – the approach you take depends on the situation you’re in.

Cheers,

Karthik Suresh

How To Think About Money And Happiness

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Thursday, 9.29pm

Sheffield, U.K.

Annual income twenty pounds, annual expenditure nineteen six, result happiness. Annual income twenty pounds, annual expenditure twenty pound ought and six, result misery. – Charles Dickens, David Copperfield

I’m on the second chapter of Alain de Botton’s The consolations of philosophy in my attempt to start the year with a good book.

Although you could start every day anew there is something special about the start of a new year – some kind of extra energy you get only at this time.

de Botton’s second chapter is called Consolation for not having enough money and it introduces a philosopher called Epicurus who championed the importance of pleasure – especially when it came to food.

His name has been appropriated to now mean an excessive pursuit of pleasure – the difference between a good meal and gluttony – but de Botton explains that the real person found happiness in simpler, less expensive things.

There were three things in his list.

First was the importance of friendships – never eat alone, he said.

Next came freedom – the option not to work for people you don’t like and do things you don’t want to do.

Or the converse, I suppose – work with people you like, admire and trust – in the words of Warren Buffett.

And then lastly having the time to think, to reflect, to question – to go through issues and come to a view – the ability to analyse anxiety and, in doing so, resolve it.

Maybe even dissolve it.

The point, de Botton points out, is that these three have nothing to do with money.

If you have money but don’t have these things – well, you’re probably not happy.

And if you do have money as well – then it must be a good life.

de Botton goes on to argue that the reason we think we need stuff in order to be happy is because of marketing – we’ve been programmed that way.

And if look for exceptions to those marketing messages or rules then we might find that the rules are wrong or need amending – and we can do that.

That seems quite simple – almost simplistic – so maybe there are a couple of messages to also add to that.

I’m reminded of two points about this thing called money.

Most of us think that money was created so we had a medium of exchange that wasn’t a chicken or pig or potato.

In other words money helped us replace a system of bartering with one of trading.

But there is another view that money is actually a form of debt.

Suppose I came to your shop and wanted some bread – and you didn’t really want one of my chickens, but you did want a piece of gold.

I might have written you an IOU on whatever the equivalent was of paper at that time – and this IOU was a promissory note for something of a certain value – and money was invented.

So, to some extent, when you collect money you collect someone else’s debt – you are “owed”.

But then why do you collect the money in the first place – why do you work or do whatever it is you do?

Is it for the money – for that pile of debts?

Or is it because you want to do something with that money?

This brings us to the second thing about money.

In order to figure out if money will bring you happiness, you first need to figure out what you want out of money.

I come from a world where Dickens’ quote that starts this blog is still very relevant.

I remember my grandmother keeping a cash book and accounting for where everything went.

And she seemed pretty happy.

I did that for a long time as well, although in the last decade it became harder with children and a general lack of time.

But it’s something to get back to again now – because I think Epicurus’s list is missing something.

Yes you need friends, freedom and time to think to be happy.

But many of us don’t have the freedom he talks about – and we still manage to be happy.

The thing that’s missing is not money, I think, but what money represents.

It doesn’t represent the ability to buy things as much as it represents a lack of debt.

And not being in debt is a good place to be.

Cheers,

Karthik Suresh

How To Reboot Your Thinking This New Year

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Wednesday, 8.09pm

Sheffield, U.K.

Employ your time in improving yourself by other men’s writings, so that you shall gain easily what others have labored hard for. – Socrates

What book would you choose to help you start this new year?

I’ve stumbled across Alain de Botton’s The consolations of philosophy and I think this is one to study over the next six days or so.

It’s a collection of essays that address six human concerns – ageless ones.

de Botton enlists the help of philosophers to explore the topics of unpopularity, not having enough money, frustration, inadequacy, a broken heart and difficulties.

Socrates is his first philosopher and he helps us understand what is right – and that what is right is not necessarily the same as what is popular.

What is important is whether it makes sense – and that’s something that we, as individuals, need to think through for ourselves.

This is important because in our short lives we are going to be exposed to many ideas – some from powerful people.

And these ideas have an impact – they have consequences.

From the views of politicians on climate change or whether to be part of a federal system or not to whether you should eat carbs or meat – it’s increasingly hard to make sense of it all.

The problem has to do with logic – or more accurately the lack of it.

And thinking logically is not that hard – de Botton claims – and gives us a six step process to follow.

  1. Select a rule that is considered common sense
  2. Imagine it’s false – look for exceptions
  3. If an exception is found the rule must be wrong or imprecise
  4. Modify the rule – add nuance to address the exception
  5. Goto 2

The sixth statement is that the product of thought is superior to the product of intuition.

And now we have a problem.

Let’s take that sixth statement – is it common sense?

Except we know it’s wrong in the case of what to do when you see a hungry lion heading in your direction.

In that case your intuition – your animal brain takes over and you run for cover or climb a tree.

Standing there thinking logically about the situation is not going to help you.

So there we have an exception – and one that we don’t really need to explore – it’s pretty much set out in Thinking, fast and slow by Kahneman.

Last year I did a lot of reading – browsing through books looking for nuggets, insights – something interesting that I could use or adapt in my own life.

And when you’re doing this it makes sense to be expansive – to collect without discrimination because there are things everywhere.

But then you have to see which of these ideas make sense – which ones you might choose to incorporate into daily life.

That’s where another one of de Botton’s observations is useful.

There are things you know that are right – but you don’t know how to respond when other people raise objections about this thing you know.

Socrates called that a “true opinion”.

Knowledge, on the other hand, is when you know why something is true and why it’s alternatives are false.

But to do that you must know the alternatives – you need to have studied them as well.

And this is where we come to why people don’t do that.

de Botton points out that some things are hard and they look hard as well.

Become an expert painter or potter or sculptor is that kind of thing – it takes time to learn how to do such things.

Then there are things that are hard to do but look easy.

Deciding how to live your life is one of those things.

After all, you could just follow the teachings of your church.

Or you could follow the laws of your state.

Or you could listen to your mum and dad.

There is no shortage of people lining up to give you advice on the best way to do things – hacks and tips and shortcuts and goals and targets and strategies.

Listen to them all.

But also learn how to work out which of those ideas make sense.

For you.

Cheers,

Karthik Suresh

The Vantasner Danger Meridian – Why It Should Exist

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Monday, 7.26pm

Sheffield, U.K.

And this was known as that greatest of treasures, which is Hope. It was a good way of getting poorer really very quickly, and staying poor. It could be you, but it wouldn’t be – Terry Pratchett, Going Postal

It’s that time of year when we’re almost at the end – and we start thinking about how we’re going to do things differently.

After a short period of doing nothing, that is, other than reading and watching TV – which is where you pick up a few interesting insights.

Take Terry Pratchett’s book “Going Postal”, for example.

It’s a story about a con man and his sometimes involuntary journey towards redemption, and along the way we could learn something about human nature and management.

Pratchett clearly has a history there, given his first story published when he was 13 is called “Business Rivals” and he spent time in the Central Electricity Generating Board.

One thing you should really take away from the book is that you need to make it easy for people to give you money.

In the book you have a man who figures that you might as well go for the impossible – because if you do achieve it you’re a hero and if you don’t – well it was impossible anyway.

You don’t get marks for reaching for something safe and not making it – people don’t notice that happening.

So what should you do and when?

That’s where the TV series “Patriot” comes in and especially the episode on the Vantasner Danger Meridian.

The Vantasner Danger Meridian is defined as “the point or line after which danger to your mission and/or sense of self increases exponentially. Often used to demarcate conditions of grave and approaching danger.”

It doesn’t exist in real life – but it should.

Here’s why.

We all know about the Sunk Cost Fallacy – you might have spent lots of time and money into a particular idea or cause but that shouldn’t be taken into consideration when deciding what to do next.

You should make that decision based on the facts you have now – not what you did previously.

Which is where we are all right now.

You have have spent decades building up a career, or failing to build one.

You might have spent lots of money on a project that isn’t working out the way you might like.

So, should you walk away because things don’t look good?

The Sunk Cost Fallacy would have you do just that – and that’s probably a fallacy in itself.

The difficulty is that we don’t know – we can’t know the best thing to do.

Endless possibilities unfold in front of us – it’s only when we make a decision that some disappear and others appear.

So what really matters is not the right decision but the next decision.

And this is where something like the VDM should really exist in real life.

Given where you are now what are the next things you can do?

And which of those do you want to do?

And where is the line – where is the point where danger increases exponentially.

Let’s take an example – it’s the New Year and you think it’s a good idea to start it by chucking in your job.

For many people that creates a number of dangerous scenarios.

Where is your money going to come from, how will you pay the mortgage, where is the next job, do you have clients lined up if you’re going to go independent?

That’s probably well past the VDM

What we need to do is figure out where the line is and how close we can get to it without things going bad.

And that needs us to be conscious of another introduction in the plot – that of jellyfish.

Apparently if you cut a jellyfish in two, the pieces can regenerate and form two new jellyfish.

The analogy here is that if you screw up a situation then that results in more things to deal with – lies beget more lies and so on.

And pretty soon the number of things you have to handle grows more quickly than you can handle them – and things start to go wrong.

When you pull all this together and combine Pratchett’s observations and the Patriot’s script you are left with something like this.

Hope is not a strategy.

Wishes are for wells.

If you want to change things the challenge is figuring out what you can do in the situation you’re in without crossing a line where danger increases exponentially.

When you’re on the right side of that line you can try and experiment and innovate.

On the wrong side of that line lies panic and desperation.

And at the edge – the edge between Newtonian physics and chaos lies complexity.

Which is where change emerges.

And if you’re lucky, it’s the change you want.

Happy New Year.

Cheers,

Karthik Suresh