Friday, 8.56pm
Sheffield, U.K.
If you had to identify, in one word, the reason why the human race has not achieved, and never will achieve, its full potential, that word would be ‘meetings.’ – Dave Barry
I had an idea.
I have to give a presentation at a conference at the end of the month and it’s on using writing and drawing to think more clearly.
What better way to prepare than to work through a script over the next few posts with you?
So let’s begin with a question: why are meetings so dreadful?
I think it’s down to one simple reason – we’re not biologically designed to have them.
When we were frogs and fish decision making was simple: we either ate it, tried to have sex with it, or ran away from it.
When we became wolves and buffalo and lions we did those three things but we also added a fourth thing: let’s do what the others are doing.
We created group behaviour in social groups.
Most group behaviour deals with the same issues – shall we go there together or run away together? Or if everything’s ok, shall we stop and fight amongst ourselves?
Ok, but let’s focus specifically on that curious aspect of modern life – the meeting.
I think meetings don’t work because our brains can’t cope with the cognitive demands of the task when we try and run a meeting without the help of tools.
Think about the last meeting or call you had. Did you all have a conversation? Did you feel heard? Do you remember what everyone else said? Did you stay on track or drift? Did you make a decision? Were you happy?
Many meetings can be visualised as a period of time when people get together and let the air out of their lungs. And when they’re done talking nothing is left but the sound of silence.
This is because you can’t listen to someone else, listen to yourself working out what you’re going to say, listen to yourself creating a response to what you’re hearing, and remember what else was said earlier by someone else.
Your brain just can’t keep up. It simply drops the information.
“No problem”, you say. “I take notes.” And that’s great. That’s an answer. But that helps you. What about the group?
What we’ve done as a species is take things outside our bodies. There’s a technical term for this that I can’t remember but it basically means that we couldn’t survive on our own any more. We’ve externalised our digestive system, for example. We’ve got to cook food before we eat it in many cases.
It’s the same with our brains. If we want to use them effectively we need to get a lot of stuff out of there so we can function more effectively in information rich situations like a meeting. We invented writing to help with this and it’s an incredibly efficient way to hold on to more information than you can remember.
This is the essence of my argument for the presentation. If you take notes you remember more. If you take notes for everyone in a shared space that everyone can see then you transform the meeting experience for people. I call this approach “Rich Notes” and it’s a way of helping small groups grapple with complicated problems in a brain friendly way. It helps you load and unload data from everyone’s brain in real time to help you have better conversations, appreciate other people’s points of view and reach agreement on what to do next.
Sounds like magic?
But it’s not easy to do.
In the next post I’ll talk about what Rich Notes are, as I understand them at this point in time.
Cheers,
Karthik Suresh
