Thursday, 9.02pm
Sheffield, U.K.
Never let anyone or anything define your value or limit your dream. – Judy Sheindlin
Day n+1 of ‘the brand you’ by Tom Peters.
Today’s topic is about value and the idea that if you’re not sure what you value most you should look at three aspects of your life.
First, check your calendar. What do you spend your time doing?
I’m watching “Scrubs” again. Because it’s on and I don’t know what else to watch and it’s good.
The story is set in a hospital and I sometimes wonder if doctors today are doing what they wanted to do with their lives.
The image we have of a doctor is someone who wants to help patients. The reality is often someone that has minutes to spend with you before rushing off to the next thing.
If they stick it out – why? Is it for the rush, for the success, the money? Whatever the answer, it is a hint to what one values.
The second thing to look at is your contribution, what comes from you?
For me, that’s a simple one. What I like doing is getting thoughts down. In text, like this. And in code, to get something done. I can spend hours trying to make something work, something that transforms one kind of information into another.
The kind of thing most people would chew their arms off to avoid doing.
I came across a quote while looking for one to start this one that said something like Linux only has value if people don’t value their time.
But it really depends on what you think is worth doing with your time – for some of us tinkering with text based tools on the command line is a good use of time. A much better use of time than clicking icons and hoping things don’t crash.
We digress…
What’s your output? For many of us it’s information these days. For others, it’s still a thing of some kind. A product or a service, that covers most of the bases. Unless you’re one of those people that tells others what to do because you have power and/or money. That works too although I can’t imagine a more soulless existence.
I guess the Ferrari takes some of the sting out of it.
And then finally who do you like hanging out with?
The changes are that the amount of money you make is the average of the people you spend the most time with.
I don’t really know if this is particularly helpful other than that many people belong to a tribe or tribes of one kind or another.
And some of us are on the fringes.
There is a thing about weak networks being important, the people who will respond to you but you don’t know very well.
The thing that will make or break you, however, is the people you know or don’t know.
I know that AI is taking over everything and I find incredibly useful.
But somewhere out there is someone who you will only do business with if someone you both know and like introduces you.
That’s just the way it is.
So, to maximise your value follow a three step process.
- Do only things that matter.
- Be someone that contributes something useful to the world.
- Be nice to others.
Cheers,
Karthik Suresh

